ABSTRACT
Most psychotherapeutic approaches involve conversations in which societally mandated hierarchies of power are rarely mentioned and even more rarely challenged. For example, a heterosexual couple seeking assistance for a "communication problem" is typically engaged in an exploration that, in keeping with their expectations, locates their problem within the bounds of their "personality-based" dyadic system. The therapist proceeds as though only the emotional dimension of the couple's partnership is significant. Consequently, questions about the management of money; second shift responsibilities such as housework, childcare, and maintenance of the couple's connections to family and friends; decision making and conflict resolution patterns; and how the couple negotiates fulfillment of each partner's sexual needs are not routinely asked. If one or both members of the couple are people of color it is likely that the impact of racism both outside and within the couple system will go unexplored.
