ABSTRACT
In this chapter we explore some aspects of the joint experience of reclaiming ‘mind’ in a therapeutic context that was female. In working together, two women – one having experienced sexual abuse by her father over ten years, the other working as her therapist – have as their goal in writing the wish to activate more thinking about the condition of all women in societies where men’s ways are privileged. The process of reclaiming their female minds from experiences of male oppression is complex and multi-layered. In considering a ‘mind that is free’, we mean a mind that is capable of thinking about and reflecting on experience rather than only being able to respond to events through the constraints induced by former terror, family or social requirements. This contribution represents a developing conversation between the authors over time and in response to questions from the editors whose curiosity has provoked further reflection a year after our work together ended. This chapter includes material which was written during the course of therapy, as well as reflections on that writing and on the therapeutic work and relationship now that the therapy has come to an end.
