ABSTRACT

All aspects of our lives require us to operate within rules or boundaries of some sort,

whether self-imposed or determined by others. Some rules seem clear, rational and

reasonable – others seem petty and irritating. It is not uncommon to hear people

grumbling about not being allowed to do what they want, even though it is (to them)

perfectly fair and reasonable

Rules can be interpreted literally or in spirit, so care has to be taken with wording to

avoid unintended consequences. You will probably be aware of the minute attention to

detail some adolescents have when it comes to the interpretation of school rules, in

respect of what constitutes ‘appropriate footwear’ and ‘jewellery’, or how ‘long’ a skirt

really is; an unwary teacher can be drawn into a protracted discussion of these details.