ABSTRACT
People think that sexual desire is something you are born withand that it is unchangeable. You either have it or you do not. The belief is that those with low desire are deficient or abnormal, that inhibited sexual desire (ISD) is a character flaw. Our culture teaches that men are supposed to be the sex experts and initiators, thereby multiplying the stigma of ISD for men. No wonder so many men, women, and couples suffer in silence.
