ABSTRACT
Issues of change in the family and marriage have been subject to discussion for many decades. These discussions have been characterised by worries and a sense of doom on the one hand, and of optimism and faith in the future on the other. Different eras have highlighted various ‘problem areas’ for discussion. Autonomy as a concept was originally incorporated in a political and philosophical context, and belongs in the political process of democratisation. It is connected to the notion that individual rights should be the same for everybody, and be protected through contracts and rules. The role of family as a mediator of norms and traditions has lessened with the development, and the material motives for starting a family are no longer as relevant. Applied in private relationships, situations of family and love, the external stance can be regarded as an aspect of societal individualisation. In relationships that are characterised by affection and generosity, there are also feelings of belonging.
