ABSTRACT

The authors discuss the effect of the interaction between attachment and passion on the human mind and behaviors. They identify passion as a motivational force and a stylistic component of behavior encompassing a wide range of powerful feelings that are manifested in diverse settings across domains and forms of engagement. The authors suggest that the specific interaction between the nature of one’s attachment state of mind and the intensity of his or her passion colors the individual’s ability to integrate attachment and passion, affecting adaptation throughout the lifespan. They argue that the relationships between attachment and passion are bidirectional and that high and low levels of passion can enhance or detract from one’s life, depending on the context of the individual’s attachment organization and what he or she is looking to gain from human bonds. Individuals with insecure attachment style are much less successful in integrating attachment and passion, while secure individuals are more successful in achieving better integration, even in the face of developmental obstacles or trauma and loss. The implications of attachment-passion configurations of both patient and therapist in psychotherapy are discussed. Several case illustrations are offered.