chapter  10
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Relationships: how to understand what is going on

We are responsible for our subpersonalities, just as we are responsible for our children, our pets and our car. We certainly need to see that they don't cause trouble to ourselves or to others. But we are not them. People can use the concept of subpersonalities very effectively. And this is true most of all when they're dealing with problems in interpersonal relationships.