ABSTRACT

Todd meets Jan at a party and flirts while playing a drinking game. He is feeling the effects of

too much alcohol and lies down in an adjacent bedroom. Jan enters and begins kissing him

and taking off his clothes. Todd does not want to have sex with Jan. Besides feeling sick, he

has a steady girlfriend. However, he lets Jan unzip his pants and has sex with her because he

can hear his friends cheering him on from the living room. To leave without having sex

would have meant losing face with his friends and enduring taunts of ‘‘pussy’’ and ‘‘fag.’’