ABSTRACT
Throughout the history of military conflict, female significant others (wives, lovers, or consorts) have played an ongoing part in the lives of warriors (Hobbes, 2003). Indeed, some of our more memorable myths and legends have involved the departure, lengthy absence, and return of warriors to the ones who have loved them in spite of their absence and waited anxiously for their return. The Greek poets, philosophers, and historians were able to make a compelling case for the difficulties associated with military lifestyles. Both of Homer’s major works, the Iliad and the Odyssey, remind us of the travails associated with long-term, war-related separations and the warrior’s arduous journey to a home that no longer existed as they once knew it (Buxton, 2004). Most often overlooked is Penelope, the wife of Odysseus, who must contend with both the loneliness associated with his lengthy absence (and perilous return), hope for the best (while preparing for the worst), and resist the unwanted temptations of a persistent suitor in the form of the lecherous Eurymachus.
