ABSTRACT

Human beings are an intrinsically gregarious species - our personal relationships are of immense interest to us and are a key factor in achieving happiness and well being. From the moment of birth, humans crave love and intimacy and we devote much energy to creating and maintaining successful personal relationships throughout our personal and our working lives. However, modern industrialized societies present a particularly challenging environment for sustaining rewarding personal relationships. Understanding how people initiate, develop, maintain, and terminate relationships is one of the core issues in psychology, and the subject matter of this book.

Contributors to this volume are all leading researchers in relationship science, and they seek here to explore and integrate the subtle influence that evolutionary, socio-cultural, and intra-psychic (cognitive, affective and motivational) variables play in relationship processes. In addition to discussing the latest advances in areas of relationship research, they also advocate an expanded theoretical approach that incorporates many of the insights gained from evolutionary psychology, social cognition, and research on affect and motivation.

The contributions should be highly relevant to researchers, teachers, students, laypersons and to everyone who is interested in the subtleties of human relationships. The book is also highly recommended to clinical, health, and relationship professionals who deal with relationship issues in their daily work.

part 1|97 pages

Introduction and Basic Principles

chapter 2|17 pages

Passionate Love and Sexual Desire

Multidisciplinary Perspectives

chapter 5|23 pages

Attachment Matters

Patterns of Romantic Attachment Across Gender, Geography, and Cultural Forms

part 2|66 pages

Cognitive Processes in Relationships

chapter 7|15 pages

Knowing When to Shut Up

Do Relationship Reflections Help or Hurt Relationship Satisfaction?

chapter 9|18 pages

Committed to What?

Using the Bases of Relational Commitment Model to Understand Continuity and Change in Social Relationships

part 3|88 pages

Motivational and Affective Processes in Relationships

part 4|85 pages

Managing Relationship Problems

chapter 15|15 pages

Punishment and Forgiveness in Close Relationships

An Evolutionary, Social-Psychological Perspective

chapter 16|18 pages

Intimate Partner Violence Perpetration

Insights from the Science of Self-Regulation

chapter 17|15 pages

Realizing Connectedness Goals?

The Risk Regulation System in Relationships

chapter 19|17 pages

Attending to Temptation

The Operation (and Perils) of Attention to Alternatives in Close Relationships