ABSTRACT
The well-known proverb quoted above illustrates an interesting paradox that applies to interpersonal relationships in many areas of modern life. On the one hand, providing assistance to those who need it helps them to achieve their desired outcomes. However, satisfaction of those needs is likely to be short-lived and through its provision, a dependence on assistance (being given a fish) may develop. On the other hand, helping individuals in an experiential manner and empowering them, while often more difficult, allows them to achieve their desired outcomes independently. In the long-run the person being helped towards independence may have greater opportunities for growth and personal fulfillment.
