ABSTRACT

This accessible guide explores how our brains react to stress and offers a fresh perspective on how we define "trauma." Probing how the words we use can influence our understanding of distress, this text focuses on expanding awareness of excess stress and reducing judgment of its potential impact on relationships and day-to-day life.

Helpfully split into three parts, the book introduces the terms "cortisprinkled," "cortisaturated," and "cortisoaked" and provides a rationale for why these states of brain occur. The role of culture and society are highlighted, and an in-depth focus on coping and offering support to others is presented. Whether caused by sexual assault, social rejection, abuse, the taboo of sexuality, disadvantaged status, or other difficulties, chapters detail specific coping skills and step-by-step strategies to deal with a variety of stress responses. Advice is offered on reconnecting with sexuality, phrasing difficult questions, and ways to offer validation, with concrete recommendations on incorporating healthier practices into everyday life.

Both metaphor and real-world vignettes are interwoven throughout, making Redefining Trauma an essential and understandable resource for therapists and their clients, parents and support givers, and anyone looking to develop practical, informed methods for dealing with stress and trauma and reclaim life with intention.

chapter 1|12 pages

Introduction

What Is “Trauma?”

part I|35 pages

What’s Happening in My Brain?

chapter 2|8 pages

Standard Functioning Brain

Cortisprinkled

chapter 3|10 pages

Threatened Brain

Cortisaturated

chapter 4|15 pages

Emergency Brain

Cortisoaked

part II|44 pages

The Significance of Others

chapter 5|13 pages

Culture of Vulnerability

“Why Are You Drowning? Just Swim!”

chapter 6|16 pages

Taboo, Stigma, and Shame

Going Against the Flow

chapter 7|11 pages

Relationships and Sexuality

The Buddy System

part III|112 pages

Coping and Healing

chapter 8|19 pages

What can i do to Prepare?

An Ounce of Prevention

chapter 9|23 pages

Coping with Hardship

A Pound of Cure

chapter 10|23 pages

Being a Good Support

Throwing a Life Preserver

chapter 11|27 pages

Sexual Healing

Balancing Soaking Wet and Dried Up

chapter 12|14 pages

When Therapy might be Needed

Calling in Reinforcements

chapter 13|4 pages

Bringing it all together

Dancing in the Rain