ABSTRACT

Therapists have a unique opportunity and responsibility to provide a respectful environment for their clients, yet respect has not received adequate attention in the psychotherapy community and related research. Respect-Focused Therapy: Honoring Clients Through the Therapeutic Relationship and Process sets forth the formulation of respect-focused therapy (RFT), a new approach to psychotherapy that addresses the quality of the client–therapist relationship and therapeutic process. This volume treats respect as a combination of action, attitude and open-mindedness, urging therapists to recognize their own biases and beliefs and be willing to suspend them for the benefit of their clients. Using Martin Buber’s "I-Thou" relationship as a conceptual model, Slay-Westbrook provides core principles of respect and demonstrates how to incorporate these into the therapeutic relationship to best foster a healing environment.

chapter 1|15 pages

Setting the Stage

The “I-Thou” Therapeutic Relationship

chapter 2|11 pages

Establishing the Central Theme in the Process

Bringing Respect Into the Room

chapter 3|17 pages

Processing Disrespect

Honoring Pain and Loss

chapter 4|13 pages

Rebuilding the Self

Growing Into Personal Respect

chapter 5|13 pages

Interpersonal Respect

Couples Relating Respectfully

chapter 6|13 pages

Parenting Respectfully

Helping Families Develop Healthy Bonds of Respect

chapter 7|12 pages

Group Therapy

Strangers Learning to Respect Themselves and Others

chapter 8|16 pages

Enlarging the Circle

Transpersonal Respect, Multiculturalism, and Social Justice

chapter 9|6 pages

Therapist Respect Thyself

Maintaining Balance and Self-Care