ABSTRACT

The 'relational turn' is a movement affecting a range of disciplines including neuroscience, psychoanalysis, psychotherapy, organisational consulting and, more recently, coaching. Its primary focus is on the centrality of human relating in determining how individuals develop, make meaning and function individually and collectively.

In The Theory and Practice of Relational Coaching: Complexity, Paradox and Integration, Simon Cavicchia and Maria Gilbert expand existing coaching theory and practice to focus on the implications of the relational turn for how coaches and clients think about the nature of identity, the self, change, learning, and individual and organisational development. Drawing on perspectives as varied as relational neuroscience, the relational foundations of personality development, psychoanalysis, psychotherapy, shame, vulnerability, complexity and systems ideas, the authors shed light on many of the paradoxes and challenges facing coaches and their clients in today’s fast-paced, volatile and uncertain organisational environments. These include holding tensions such as the uniqueness of individual needs with the requirements of organisational contexts, managing multiple stakeholder expectations and networks and balancing linear approaches to change with adjusting to emerging and unpredictable events.

Given the ever-increasing volatility, complexity and uncertainty that coaches and their clients face, The Theory and Practice of Relational Coaching guides the reader through a series of illuminating perspectives, examples and practical suggestions. These will enable coaches to integrate a more relational orientation in their work and extend their range and that of their clients for responding creatively to the challenges of modern organisational life. The book will appeal to coaches and coaching psychologists in practice and training, as well as counsellors and psychotherapists retraining as coaches.

section 1|74 pages

The relational turn and coaching

chapter 1|24 pages

Setting the scene for an integrative relational approach to coaching in challenging times

Uncertainty, paradox and complexity

chapter 3|15 pages

Relational coaching and change

Two distinct and interrelated approaches to change

chapter 4|18 pages

Selves in context

Navigating and negotiating organisational life

section 2|65 pages

Practice perspectives

chapter 5|16 pages

Coming together

Unpacking the coach-coachee-context constellation

chapter 6|13 pages

Intersubjectivity 1

Understanding relationship dynamics from a developmental perspective

chapter 7|18 pages

Intersubjectivity 2

The co-creation of the coaching relationship, meaning and change

chapter 8|16 pages

Relational integration

Implications for practice

section 3|61 pages

Applications

chapter 9|18 pages

Shame and vulnerability

The experiences that dare not speak their name

chapter 11|15 pages

Coaching in organisations

Culture, norms and novelty

chapter 12|12 pages

Feedback and assessment

chapter |13 pages

Concluding thoughts

Relational perspectives on the development of coaches, ethics and supervision