ABSTRACT

How does the toxicity associated with particular parenting styles affect attachment? How do the contaminated views of themselves that children of poisonous parents have affect their relationships into adulthood? Like physicians, clinicians do not want to amputate, but they sometimes find it necessary in order to preserve the health of the larger system. Poisonous Parenting shows clinicians how to recognize the effects of poisonous parenting in adult children and how to heal the scars created by parents' toxic attitudes and behaviors. Readers will come away from the book understanding ways to counteract the effects of  poisonous parenting so that clients can recover and lead a healthy life. They'll also learn techniques for determining when a relationship can be salvaged, when to proceed with caution, and when to disconnect in order to keep the poison from spreading. 

chapter |24 pages

Compassionate Parenting

The Antidote to Poisonous Parenting

chapter |13 pages

Parental Presence

An Interpersonal Neurobiology Approach to Healthy Relationships Between Adults and Their Parents

chapter |18 pages

Creating Secure Attachment

A Model for Creating Healthy Relationships

chapter |18 pages

Disconnection and Parenting

A Relational–Cultural Perspective

chapter |18 pages

Saving Oneself

Forgiving the Poisonous Parent as an Act of Kindness to Oneself and Future Generations