ABSTRACT
Many women dream of becoming the mother of twins. Those who have them often find that the reality is very different from their expectations. The challenge of looking after and responding to two babies can be difficult under any circumstances, but is particularly so as one or both of the twins is likely to be more vulnerable than its singleton counterpart. This situation is compounded by the common perception of the public – and not uncommonly of the professionals too – that twins are accompanied by unqualified joy from conception onwards. This misperception often makes it hard for parents to admit their difficulties and obtain professional help when they need it. Physical, emotional and financial strains in the postpartum period may lead to serious difficulties in relations between the parents.
