ABSTRACT
This chapter describes Tavistock Relationships with parental couples in groups, and is concerned with the specific benefits and challenges of the group setting. It explores the differences between the heterogeneous and homogeneous groups, with case examples from a general group and from a group attended by six gay and lesbian parental couples. The programme’s design was intended deliberately to address some of the gaps in existing parenting group programmes, which traditionally promote positive parenting practices and parent–child relationships, but often are attended by mothers and pay little attention to fathers, the couple or co-parenting relationships. Couples joining groups may fear the shame of exposing their most private selves in front of others, and they may also struggle with having to share the time and attention of the group as a couple. These are two essential aspects of the group setting; showing vulnerability to others on the one hand and having to share the ‘emotional space’ – on the other.
