ABSTRACT
ISexuality is shrouded in myths which are powerfully destructive and die hard. Old myths are based on repressive attitudes and sexual ignorance. New myths are based on unrealistic performance demands and erotic perfectionism.
Knowledge is power. This chapter confronts 25 sex myths and replaces them with scientifically validated information to motivate and empower couples to develop and maintain a satisfying, secure, and sexual relationship.
This chapter includes a case study to reinforce couple learning and introduces the four-session assessment model to increase awareness of individual and couple factors which subvert sexuality and how to address and resolve these problems. A key to successful sex is feeling responsible for sexuality and being an intimate and erotic team. A relapse prevention program helps maintain changes and continue to grow as a sexual couple.
Sexuality has a positive 15–20% role in the relationship, allowing each partner to feel desire and desirable and energize the bond.
