ABSTRACT
In this chapter, the authors explore the place of love in the transformational power of the therapeutic relationship. They provide examples of how the dynamic manifests in their work as therapists and draw from theory and research to propose that love is central to a successful therapeutic relationship. Within psychology and psychotherapy, love has been considered too elusive a topic for behavioural–scientific study. The centrality of love and attachments within primary relationships and their impact on children's mental and physical well-being is well documented. C. H. Patterson believed that the conditions "constitute love in the highest sense or agape". Lack of love within primary relationships affects one's internal working model and understandably might lead to a fear of engaging in love, intimacy, or therapeutic relationships. In academic work and conversations with colleagues and students particularly when considering "the love that the therapist might have for the patient/client” provokes a sense of caution and taboo for some.
