ABSTRACT

One of the most contentious areas of discussion in the exploration of psychotherapy and spiritual direction is that of the practice of prayer. This chapter explores what the word "prayer" actually means, the historical view of its role, the evidence for its effectiveness, and the possible benefits and pitfalls of its incorporation into the practice of psychotherapy and spiritual direction. It considers the spiritual practice and prayer life of psychotherapists and spiritual directors themselves. Gubi defines prayer as "the word that describes that process of being in touch with a sense of transcendent inter- (or intra-) connectedness". Historically the world of therapy has, in the main, frowned on the use of prayer as an intervention or strategy, although some Christian and pastoral counsellors have always argued for its inclusion. In spiritual direction prayer is often routinely included in each session and for many directors and their directees it is central to the process of direction.