ABSTRACT

It is assumed in the following discussion that the typical Sonjo family is monogamous. Although polygyny is practised, this form of marriage is relatively infrequent among the Sonjo as compared with many African societies. Therefore, the polygynous family will be dealt with as a special development or complication of the more usual monogamous family. The partners of a monogamous marriage normally live together in a single house so long as their marriage lasts. Meals are taken in the home, with the whole family eating together. The roles played by boys and girls in the home are differentiated at an early age. The relationship between brothers and sisters is supposed to be warm and cordial throughout life, but not unduly intimate. Divorce customs are important for an understanding of Sonjo social structure, because they bring some of the key relationships into sharp relief and indicate the nature and strength of these relationships.