ABSTRACT
Conflict transformation practitioners serve as mediators, facilitators and even coaches to parties deeply conflicted and highly toxic in terms of divisive narratives of “us” and “them.” These engagements can negatively impact practitioners and hence the need for self-care protocols. The author defines conflict transformation, vicarious trauma, and invites readers to reflect on the value of self-care drawn from current trauma literature, faith based, and African traditional perspectives. The power and place of rituals such as lament and forgiveness offer an invitation to explore self-care protocols for those who do the work of healing, and reconciling others who are themselves “wounded” healers in need of constant renewal and resilient nurturing environments.
