ABSTRACT

Popular Western images of Indian women range from submissive brides behind their veils to the powerful, active women of Indian politics. In this lively and unique book, Patricia and Roger Jeffery present a different perspective on women’s lives. Focusing on the mundane rather than the exotic, they explore the complex interplay between the power of social structures to constrain individuals and the ways women negotiate these constraints to carve out places for themselves. Based on information collected by the authors during their research in villages in Bijnor District, western Uttar Pradesh, the volume offers eight life histories of Hindu and Muslim women. The women’s life histories present a variety of class positions and domestic circumstances, illustrating many aspects of north Indian village life. Interspersed with thematic discussion composed of dialogues, episodes, and songs, the life histories deal with topics of vital concern for women in rural north India: the birth of children, worries about dowry, arranging weddings, sexual politics in marriage, relationships with inlaws, relationships with natal kin, and widowhood.

chapter |37 pages

Introduction

chapter 1|15 pages

Queen Today in a Red Sārī!

chapter 2|16 pages

Just Because I Was Angry

chapter 3|14 pages

She’s Brought Plenty of Wealth

chapter 5|16 pages

Leaving Her Father’s House

chapter 6|13 pages

Who Would There Be to Sit with Our Boy?

chapter 7|15 pages

No One of Your Own Will Be There

chapter 9|16 pages

The Daughter-in-Law’s Era

chapter 10|16 pages

Love and Peace in My Mother’s House

chapter 11|14 pages

Should I Become a Pauper?

chapter 12|15 pages

Toasted on One Side

chapter 13|15 pages

Why Have You Married Me So Distantly?

chapter 14|14 pages

If My Uncle Saw the Situation I’m in Now

chapter 15|14 pages

A Woman Should Die Before Her Husband

chapter 16|15 pages

Allah Gives Both Boys and Girls

chapter |2 pages

Afterword