ABSTRACT

This is the true story of Adolphine, a refugee from the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC) who was twenty-two when she had to flee her home in the war-ravaged DRC in 1996. She walked thousands of kilometres across Southern Africa to be reunited with her husband Sepano in Cape Town after two years of a desperate search. Her incredible journey to escape the ruinous rule of Mobutu Sese Seko was filled with many moments of terror and despair, every country having its own share of xenophobia. She told the writer – the retired national tracing coordinator of the International Red Cross’s Restoring of Family Links programme in South Africa – “I felt as if the earth had teeth, I felt its bite when I was fleeing through Africa…”.

Her story is a powerful intimate account of belonging and the anguish of displacement, of settling and being uprooted and how a deeply troubled household navigates this across time and space. Her story strongly highlights the vulnerability of women and children in times of war and unrest.

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chapter Chapter One|3 pages

Flight from Lubumbashi

chapter Chapter Two|8 pages

Happy childhood days in Lubumbashi

chapter Chapter Three|5 pages

Mulumba Joseph wa Nkudimba, ‘man of peace’

chapter Chapter Four|7 pages

Nkudimba's fallen hero and the latter's living nemesis

chapter Chapter Five|6 pages

Life in Zambia and political turmoil

chapter Chapter Six|5 pages

An arranged marriage becomes a love match

chapter Chapter Seven|4 pages

The devastation caused by increased unrest in Zaire

chapter Chapter Eight|7 pages

Journeying through the wasteland

chapter Chapter Nine|5 pages

Change of fortune in Malawi

part 532|62 pages

chapter Chapter Ten|2 pages

Fall of a tyrant

chapter Chapter Eleven|8 pages

A star-crossed family reunited

chapter Chapter Thirteen|4 pages

Three babies born to the Kabangos

chapter Chapter Fourteen|8 pages

Fear in a time of xenophobia

chapter Chapter Fifteen|6 pages

Refugee life in Cape Town post-2008

chapter Chapter Sixteen|7 pages

A deep-rooted legacy

chapter Chapter Seventeen|6 pages

A stout, but heavy heart

chapter Chapter Eighteen|6 pages

Sepano's visit to the DRC

chapter Chapter Nineteen|4 pages

Tragic news, yet new found peace