ABSTRACT

This book gathers together selected papers and book chapters by Dilys Daws, covering her 50 years of pioneering work as a child psychotherapist.

It provides those working with parents, infants, and children with a means of learning from Daws’s decades of experience as a psychotherapist and therapeutic consultant, with plentiful case material illustrating her method of working in action. The first two sections of the book focus on her work as consultant psychotherapist in the baby clinic of a GP practice and her parent-infant work in this context as well as at the Tavistock and Portman Clinic. The third section explores her work with young children, focusing on questions around the therapeutic frame and setting. The fourth section features extended excerpts from her writings for the general public, most particularly aimed at new parents and parents with infants. Finally, the book also contains several short reflective pieces addressing themes to do with parent-infant work, the experience of the therapist, and the social role of psychoanalytic thinking.

This book will be of interest to all those working with parents and children, including doctors, health visitors, and social workers, as well as child psychotherapists and child psychoanalysts.

part 1|30 pages

Therapeutic consultancy

chapter 2|15 pages

A child psychotherapist in the baby clinic of a general practice

Standing by the weighing scales 30 years on

chapter 3|4 pages

Psychoanalysis and the public service

Can they inspire each other?

part 2|66 pages

Parent-infant psychotherapy and infant mental health

chapter 4|12 pages

Parent-infant psychotherapy

The baby in the consulting room

chapter 6|14 pages

Feeding problems and relationship difficulties

Therapeutic work with parents and infants

chapter 7|18 pages

The perils of intimacy

Closeness and distance in feeding and weaning

part 3|29 pages

Child psychotherapy

chapter 8|10 pages

Consent in child psychotherapy

The conflicts for child patients, parents, and professionals

chapter 9|17 pages

Resistance and co-operation

The need for both. A further study of psychotherapy in a Day Unit

part 4|45 pages

Writing for parents

chapter 11|5 pages

Love and hate

chapter 12|17 pages

Crying babies

part 5|27 pages

Reflections

chapter 14|4 pages

Enlivened or burnt out

chapter 16|4 pages

Working at the edge

The quiet subversiveness of psychoanalytic thinking

chapter 17|5 pages

Error and repair

chapter 18|3 pages

Rivalry with fathers