ABSTRACT

This thoughtful and heartfelt book develops two main themes: the healing power of a compassionate understanding towards ourselves and others, and the ways boundaries are set within and around various areas of our lives.

 

It examines how we live these boundaries, how they impact us, and what it takes to live these with deeper satisfaction. This book also addresses: shame and rage; the impact of trauma; the power of parental messages, spoken and unspoken; and transgenerational burdens. A theoretical chapter summarizes the author’s integrative, phenomenological approach: it brings the insights of a body-focused trauma therapy and a systemic lens to an overarching Existential perspective. Numerous vignettes, case studies and client-therapist dialogues illustrate reflections on life, philosophy, therapeutic modalities and practice.

 

This book will be a thought-provoking read for trainee and practising counsellors and psychotherapists, or anyone looking for self-reflection on their own practices, life, and ultimately, what it means to be human.

chapter |2 pages

Introduction

chapter Chapter 1|8 pages

Spatial Boundaries

chapter Chapter 2|10 pages

Finding My Place

Spatial Boundaries

chapter Chapter 3|15 pages

Time

Understanding, Compassion, and Boundaries

chapter Chapter 4|11 pages

My Place in Time

chapter Chapter 6|14 pages

Shame

chapter Chapter 7|11 pages

Mothers

Challenges of Motherhood and Mothering

chapter Chapter 8|11 pages

Mothers

Some Mother–Child Stories of Narcissism, Absence, and Trauma

chapter Chapter 9|6 pages

Mothers

Some Mother–Child Stories: Broken Bonds

chapter Chapter 10|8 pages

Mothers

Maternal Feelings in the Therapeutic Relationship; Conclusion

chapter Chapter 11|18 pages

Fathers

chapter Chapter 12|3 pages

The Family Holy Book

chapter Chapter 13|33 pages

Understanding

chapter Chapter 14|2 pages

Heart