ABSTRACT

Joseph English was living his best life when a car accident changed everything. He suffered life changing injuries, and the doctors told him there was no chance of recovery. Facing life as a quadriplegic, Joe lost his business, his romantic partner, and, for a while, his will to carry on. His story, told with extensive contributions from his family and friends, charts his journey from being dead at the roadside to finding something to live for as he recounts his progress from injury to survival.

With absolute candour, Joe tells the whole story of his accident, his rehabilitation, and his recovery. Full of advice and suggestions from professionals in the rehabilitation journey, this book is remarkably frank about the struggles Joe has endured, and the times when he felt as if life wasn’t worth living. It addresses all the most difficult issues around life after paralysis, including loss of identity and letting go of the past, as well as providing practical information on topics such as assistive technology, financial claims and legal support. It also outlines the various roles of those in the rehabilitation team. His doctors and specialist practitioners give their unique perspectives into their processes and procedures, helping to demystify them, while Joe’s family and friends ask the kinds of questions readers will be asking too, making this an invaluable guide to what to expect for anyone going through a similar experience. The book shows – by lived example – that there is always more to live for.

It is essential reading for those with paraplegia, quadriplegia and other spinal injuries, and their families, friends and care-givers. It is also valuable for neuropsychologists, neurologists and other rehabilitation therapists, as well as students in medicine, nursing, allied health and neuropsychology.

part 1|38 pages

The Accident and the Aftermath

chapter 1|4 pages

Dead at the Roadside

chapter 2|8 pages

The Decision to Live or Die

chapter 3|9 pages

Seeing Red

chapter 4|5 pages

Learning to Let Go of My Old Life

chapter 5|5 pages

On My Way Back

chapter 6|5 pages

The Breakup

part 2|64 pages

It Takes a Village

chapter 8|5 pages

What Can You Expect in Rehab?

chapter 9|7 pages

Working with Your Case Manager

chapter 10|5 pages

Rebuilding Your Life

chapter 11|10 pages

Managing Food and Weight

chapter 12|11 pages

Working with a Neuropsychologist

chapter 13|8 pages

Up, Up and Away

chapter 14|6 pages

The World of Assistive Technology

part 3|47 pages

Hope for a Brighter Future

chapter 15|13 pages

Funding Your Future

chapter 16|11 pages

Care and Support

chapter 17|7 pages

Letting Go and Moving On

chapter 18|9 pages

The Love and Support of Friends and Family

chapter 19|5 pages

A Remarkable Journey