ABSTRACT

The essential bond in a family is between the husband and wife. Through marriage you become involved with his or her nuclear and extended family. It is not a choice, it is a reality. We hope you will enjoy and feel accepted by your spouse’s family. All families have strengths as well as problems. Ideally you enjoy the people without being caught up in stresses and conflicts. You form positive, meaningful bonds with in-laws and siblings while maintaining cordial relations with others. Extended family can be a positive resource for your life and marriage. Optimally, this would be true with both sets of families.