ABSTRACT

Ourcontributiontothisbookisbasedonaverypersonalexperience.In1978,Raphell,ourpreciousdaughter,diedsuddenlyofananeurysm.Shewastwenty-nine yearsoldandouronlychild.

Becausewewantedsomemeaningtocomefromthisapparentlysenselesstragedy,weweredeterminedtocontinueRaphell'swork-herconcernforthementallyafflicted.Tothatend,weestablishedtheRaphellSimsLakowitzMemorial FoundationanderectedamonumentthatwouldnotonlycommemorateRaphell'sworkinthefieldofmentalhealthbutalsocelebrateherspiritofunderstandingandlove.Itisthatspiritwhichisembodiedinthemonumentandwhich istheessenceoftheFoundation'smotivationforhelpingthementallyafflictedto livemorefully.