ABSTRACT

In many situations it becomes possible to judge the moment when the aggression is at the point of escalation – that moment when the behaviour is moving from truculence into a more strident form. At this point (if not before) sit down and invite the aggressor to sit down with an open hand gesture. Only sit down if you feel confident. It is a demonstrative model which allows the aggressor to perceive de-escalation. The act is a clear signal of non-aggression and a sign of negotiation.