ABSTRACT

Every 85 minutes someone in the UK takes their own life, but what happens to those left behind? In a society where suicide is often viewed with fear or disapproval, it can be difficult for those personally affected by a suicide death to come to terms with their loss and seek help and support. A Special Scar looks in detail at the stigma surronding suicide and offers practical help for survivors, relatives and friends of people who have taken their own life. Fifty bereaved people tell their own stories, showing us that, by not hiding the truth from themselves and others, they have been able to learn to live with the suicide, offering hope to others facing this traumatic loss. This new, revised edition includes new material on:
* counselling survivors of suicide
* group work with survivors.
The new material incorporates the latest research findings which have added significantly to our understanding of the impact of suicide, an area which the UK Government has targeted for action in the mental health arena. This new edition will continue to be an invaluable resource for survivors of suicide as well as for all those who are in contact with them, including police and coroner's officers, bereavement services, self-help organisations for survivors, mental health professionals, social workers, GPs, counsellors and therapists.
Alison Wertheimer has been working as a freelance writer and researcher since 1987, after working in the voluntary sector for twenty years. She has a private counselling practice, is a supervisor with a bereavement counselling service and runs workshops on the impact of suicide bereavement.

part |2 pages

Part 1 Introduction

chapter 1|14 pages

Suicide: an introduction

chapter 2|16 pages

Survivors of suicide

part |2 pages

Part 2 Aspects of suicide bereavement

chapter 3|4 pages

Meeting the survivors

chapter 4|14 pages

When the suicide happens

chapter 5|13 pages

Looking back

chapter 7|11 pages

The inquest

chapter 8|5 pages

Funerals

chapter 9|13 pages

Facing suicide as a family

chapter 11|12 pages

Facing the world

chapter 12|13 pages

Looking for support*

chapter 13|17 pages

Facing the feelings

chapter 14|13 pages

Finding a way through

part |2 pages

Part 3 Responding to people bereaved by suicide

chapter 15|15 pages

Meeting the needs of survivors

chapter 16|19 pages

Groups for people bereaved by suicide

chapter 17|22 pages

Counselling people bereaved by suicide*