ABSTRACT
Identifying the characteristics of optimal self-esteem requires asking, “For what?” What do we think optimal self-esteem leads to? What are we ultimately trying to achieve by having optimal self-esteem? For me, the aim is to be on the path of accomplishing our most cherished goals—goals that are both good for the self and good for others. Being on the path of accomplishing those goals requires motivation, commitment, even a sense of passion; it requires a vision of how to accomplish those goals, the steps along the path; it requires a true learning orientation, in which people are realistic about their strengths and weaknesses and about the obstacles they face, and are committed to addressing the weaknesses that interfere with accomplishing their goals.
