ABSTRACT

You invite your child to have some fun with you that involves

making a date at some future time;

doing something you both enjoy;

going outside away from the house;

marking it on your calendar;

keeping the date and making sure that nothing will interfere with it (except say, a hurricane, having to check into the hospital, etc.);

only the two of you going, so that you have each other’s undivided attention;

ending up having something good to eat together;

talking together—sharing things about yourself that are appropriate, which will encourage your child to share with you.