ABSTRACT
When the presenting problem involves a relationship, we prefer to work with both people at the same time. This is true even if the primary source of the problem appears to be the unwarranted insecurity, jealousy, or blocked emotions of only one of the two people involved. Thus, most of the metaphor scripts presented in this chapter are appropriate for use with couples who have participated in a trance induction together and are now ready for the therapist to clarify the situation and offer suggestions for alternative resolutions. These metaphors also can be used with individuals seeking help because of a history of insecurity, jealousy, or fear of commitment; however, we recommend that interpersonal difficulties be dealt with in an interpersonal manner, that is, with a partner, whenever this is feasible. By involving a partner in the process, it becomes possible to alter the outcome of the undesirable behavior and break the dynamic that has supported it in the past.
