ABSTRACT

I end with a sense of incompleteness. There are many episodes I had to leave out. Mainly because they would have identified and embarrassed people about whom I still care. I apologize to the reader who hoped for more titillation that most of any details of my sex life had to be omitted. But I don’t think such omissions seriously impair the total story told. After all, everyday life is a reflection of one’s hidden life, and the reverse is true as well.