ABSTRACT

Whatever the chief complaint, be it anxiety, depression, compulsions, pho-bias, personality problems, and/or relationship conflicts, explanatory therapy is greatly complicated if people have difficulty talking. In most situations, si-lences of more than a minute or so are counterproductive to the therapeutic progress. Since most silence is volitional in adults, silent people are “resist-ing,” that is, breaking the working alliance.

THEORY

The working alliance is established between people and their therapists, and consists of a contract whereby the person in treatment agrees to

attend sessions at the scheduled time,

pay for the therapist's time in the manner the therapist requires,

pay for missed appointments as is the therapist's policy

agree they have a problem, and talk

In return, the therapist agrees

to listen carefully, and

to offer ideas about the problems that may help people in treat-ment better understand themselves.