ABSTRACT
In this chapter I offer some examples of how the presenting problem or problems
for which couples seek treatment can serve as a collusive defense. The therapist
is called upon to help them stop the downward destructive spiral and get back
on track but not necessarily to overhaul their system entirely. Metaphorically,
the couple is requesting a tune-up when a transmission service may be what is
needed. Therapists, however, must consider that some transmissions can last for
years, even though they are not serviced periodically. If the therapist is successful
in helping couples regain their lost equilibrium, they will be more likely to return
for help when the transmission begins to slip.
