ABSTRACT
In the previous chapter we reviewed research on rejection and betrayal, two highly unpleasant interpersonal experiences that shake the foundation of many close relationships. Intimate partner violence-violence occurring within romantic, marital, family, friend, and other intimate relationships-represents another deeply problematic (and disturbingly common) relational issue. Survey research reveals that minor acts of physical aggression (such as slapping, pushing, or shoving) occur in roughly one-third of dating relationships (Hines & Malley-Morrison, 2005). Severe acts of aggression also are quite prevalent. The U.S. Department of Justice (2008b) reports that about 12%
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of victims of violent crime are assaulted by a relative (e.g., spouse, parent, child), with another 41% attacked by a personal acquaintance; in fact, only 38% of such crimes are committed by strangers. Although any intimate relationship carries the potential for violence, most researchers have focused on aggressive behavior that occurs between romantic partners; consequently, most of our discussion explores the dynamics of violence in dating and marital relationships. However, we also examine what is currently known about bullying and peer victimization, both among adults in the workplace and among children in school settings.
