ABSTRACT

Learn to look at marriage and couples counseling through the lens of Rational Emotive Couples Therapy. Dr. Russell Grieger walks the reader through the RECT process and includes numerous exercises that are appropriate for clinicians to use with their clients, for those couples who are in therapy and need a little extra help, and for couples working to improve their relationship on their own.
Along with explaining the process of Rational Emotive Couples Therapy, Dr. Grieger makes the distinction between relationship difficulties, which are small disagreements and dissatisfactions, and relationship disturbances, which occur when a couple becomes emotionally distressed and entrenched in negativity. He walks readers through the couple diagnosis and presents eight powerful strategies for helping resolve both couple difficulties and disturbances to find relationship harmony.
Dr. Grieger addresses such issues as ridding hurt, anger, fear, and insecurity, enhancing closeness and intimacy, win-win conflict resolution, and building couple commitment and connection. Replete with exercises that empower couples to take action and solve their problems, The Couples Therapy Companion also helps readers to sustain the positive momentum learned in therapy in everyday life.

chapter |12 pages

Introduction

part I|27 pages

Diagnosing and Goal Setting

chapter 1|18 pages

The Couple Diagnosis

chapter 2|7 pages

The Couple Goal Setting

part II|131 pages

Prescribing Solutions

part |66 pages

Eliminating Relationship Disturbance

chapter 3|11 pages

Eliminating Relationship Disturbance

An Overview

chapter 4|19 pages

Premeditated Acceptance and Forgiveness

The Antidote to Hurt and Anger

chapter 5|19 pages

Unconditional Self-Acceptance

The Antidote to Fear and Insecurity

chapter 6|16 pages

Relationship Resilience

The Antidote to Low Frustration Tolerance

part |64 pages

Building Relationship Harmony and Satisfaction

chapter 7|12 pages

Building Relationship Harmony and Happiness

An Overview

chapter 8|15 pages

Relentless and Intelligent Giving

chapter 9|11 pages

Commitment to the Couple

chapter 10|14 pages

Frequent, Passionate Intimacy

chapter 11|11 pages

Win-Win Conflict Resolution

part III|14 pages

Following Through to Success

chapter 12|10 pages

Purposely Sustaining Momentum

chapter 13|2 pages

Epilogue