ABSTRACT

This chapter examines the significance of quietness in social interaction, from commissive acts of silence as political resistance, through lying, secrecy and stigma, to muted and civilised displays of emotions in politeness rituals and the omissive reticence of shyness. Focusing on the co-productive and negotiated dimensions of silence, we see how this definition emerges through societal reactions. Thus as well as deliberately keeping quiet, people may be denied a voice or find themselves unheard. Examples from the data include family secrets, conversational non-response and failing to speak out on political issues.