ABSTRACT
When a man is looking at a magazine and fantasizing about having sex with an attractive woman without fear of rejection it is called pornography. When men objectifies women, it is called pornography, sexism, sexual harassment. When women objectifies men, it is called a romance novel, a self-improvement book, a film on relationships. In brief, when he guesses right, it is called courtship; when he guesses wrong, it is called harassment. And, if the courtship works it is called a marriage with her picture in the paper; if the courtship fails, it is called a court case with his picture in the paper. The man's wealth allows her the freedom to work by option, not by obligation-to work if she wants, at what she wants. It is the portrayal of him as wealthy while ignoring the pressures he endures to create that wealth that turns him into an object-a success object.
