ABSTRACT
This chapter draws on the other-centred concept of triangular relationship (between therapist, client and the shared object of attention) showing how in ecotherapy the third element is the natural environment. The other-centred model, in viewing the therapeutic relationship as triangular, focuses on side-by-side communication both imaginatively and literally. There are different kinds of attention. Sometimes attention is sharp and focused, like the eye of the heron penetrating the water of the pond. Therapists are interested in how their clients pay attention to the world. Empathy is foundational to the therapeutic relationship. Developing empathy with someone is always a process of negotiation and checking. Outdoors the facilitator can use the two vantage points, empathic resonance and objective observation, to see the incongruence between a person's story and his actions and can give direct feedback. Other-centred approach is concerned with understanding the way that the world-view is biased and orientated towards personal agendas.
