ABSTRACT
In the previous chapter, the common expectations for hospitality expected of friends were examined. In this chapter we turn to more subjective expressions. Friends promise future assistance, friends touch, and friends validate. Making and redeeming promises are one way to maintain the bonds of friendship. Touching, at least for many in this culture, although far more subjective, benefits the giver and the receiver. Because of cultural perspectives, the friend must be sensitive to differences and expectations. Friends are also asked to give validation to the grief decisions of the chief mourner as well as others in the friendorbit.
