ABSTRACT

Now you’ve considered the importance of your child’s relationship blueprint, the necessity that he become independent and self-reliant, ways to swiftly and accurately identify the mistaken goal of his behavior, ways you can deal with the behavior in the moment without making things worse, and the character traits you want your child to develop. With the knowledge you’ve gained from that reflection, it’s time for the final element-designing intentional plans with your unique child(ren) and family in mind. This final element adds more power to your plan for raising capable children and competent adults. You will be designing routines and establishing boundaries that take into consideration your child’s personality and idiosyncrasies, which will make each and every routine or plan seem like a perfect fit.