ABSTRACT
At the same time they are considering the theological or philosophical questions, some bereaved parents also ponder the "Why Didn't I?" questions "Why didn't I realize how sick she was?" "Why didn't I go to the hospital with him?" "Why didn't I forbid him to take that trip?" "Why didn't I call her?" "Why didn't I notice what was happening?" "Why didn't we get a second opinion?" "Why didn't I say something?" "Why did I say what I said?" On and on and on ....
