ABSTRACT

Love, Sex and Teenage Sexual Cultures in South Africa interrupts the relative silence around teenage constructions of love in South Africa. Against the backdrop of gender inequalities, HIV and violence, the book situates teenage constructions of love and romance within the wider social and cultural context underwritten by the histories of apartheid, chronic unemployment, poverty, and the endless struggle to survive.

By drawing on focus group discussions with African teenage men and women, the book addresses teenage Africans as active agents, providing a more nuanced picture of their desires and their dilemmas through which sexuality and love are experienced. The chapters in the book conceptualise desiring love, material love, pure love, forced love and fearing love. It argues that love is intrinsically linked to cultural practices and material realities which mold particular formations of teenage masculinities and femininities.

This book will be of interest to academics, undergraduates, postgraduates and researchers in sociology, HIV, health and gender studies, development and postcolonial studies and African studies.

chapter 1|35 pages

Introduction

chapter 2|19 pages

Teenagers expressing love

Regulating gender and sexuality

chapter 3|20 pages

Girls want money, boys want virgins

Culture and the materiality of teenage love

chapter 4|18 pages

‘Pure love’

Virgins, virtue and desire

chapter 5|22 pages

“I’m the one who says I love you first and I’m the one to break up with you”

Masculinity, forced love and resistance

chapter 6|30 pages

“Girls are not free”

Feelings of love, feelings of fear

chapter 7|19 pages

Conclusion

Calling for compassion, care and change