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Introduction

Billy knows that fathering is hard work. He knows the work is an ill-defined and ongoing emotional process. He knows that it is full of surprises, and those surprises open up for Billy opportunities to connect more fully with his sons, or not. There is choice. Sometimes he chooses to connect and sometimes he feels too old and too tired. At those times, the work of fathering drains emotionally and physically.