ABSTRACT

Psychodynamic couple therapy is not only a theoretical model but an important clinical method necessary for understanding the self as well as an "Other" from the perspective of uncovering unconscious conflicts. Psychodynamic models are not static; they evolve and integrate concepts derived from systems, attachment, cognitive, and other theoretical perspectives. A major principle of all psychodynamic approaches is that only when someone has a sense of what goes on internally can he or she truly have a grip on choices in work, friendship, and love relationships. An additional contribution to the evolving history of psychodynamic couple therapy includes the notions of Cognitive Maps, theories of involvement, and the role of wisdom. Intimacy involves the experience of a non-judgmental climate as existing within the couple context. The actual dynamic quality of the relationship at present: the current couple is in conflict, yet healthy enough to not seize on differences to abruptly break up.