ABSTRACT
I had no adequate ways to express this integrated view of sexual desire and intimacy until 2012, when I discovered Gina Ogden’s 4-D Wheel of Sexual Experience and started using it to help men connect with the whole story of their sexuality and incorporate it into their lives. The Wheel has offered me an opportunity to create a space where these men can explore their sexuality without negative judgments and without having to perform (or stop performing) in some specified way. Using the Wheel, I can invite them to examine their internal world and inhabit it in ways they had never been able to before.
