ABSTRACT
The word "narrative" implies listening to and/or the telling or retelling of stories about people and the problems their lives. Narrative practices therapy are informed by idea that hearing stories can shape new realities and alternative stories. The use of a "consultant" or "helper" in therapy relationship can be an effective way to better understand thoughts and feelings of young children. Children's resources and ideas can be engaged to help them make unique contributions as participants in their own therapy. It also helps parents open up to new ideas about their children and problem. The acceptance and use of the person's language is seen as useful, not only in respecting another's thoughts and feelings, but also deemphasizing the hierarchy in the therapeutic relationship. A common narrative phrase is, "The person is not the problem, and the problem is the problem". This practice is called "externalization" and helps separate person from problem. Externalizing the problem often relieves pressure from blame and defensiveness.
